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This phrase has been all the buzz for a while now in Hollywood films and TV shows when depicting the world of escorting.

After the amazing weekend I recently had with a new suitor, I thought I would sit down and intentionally dissect and clarify the meaning of this phrase, by writing about it through the lense of the experience I curated for this gentleman that left him wanting me back for a 3rd night.

I will now go through the entire process from his initial contact to our final goodbye, to show exactly why this experience is highly coveted by most clients. 

This gentleman reached out to me via email, about three weeks before his desired date of choice. He described himself and his personality in detail (all non-sexual), his occupation, and his interests. He also shared his work information as well as articles that have been written about him. He wanted to make it easy for me to do my research on him to make me feel comfortable about seeing him.

This is an amazing quality in a potential client; I love a man that does everything in his power to make the screening process easy for me with zero excuses.

I asked him how he found me and he told me that he searched for “high-end exclusive escort in Miami”. I was flattered and definitely beaming from ear-to-ear that my SEO work seemed to be bearing fruit, as I put significant effort into curating my ads, social media, and website, to attract my ideal client.

He made it very clear that he did his research on me: from my website to every social media outlet I am on; this is something I constantly preach on my podcast for clients to do, to avoid getting burned by a fake companion.

He was respectful and charming from his initial email and I knew we were going to have some fun. He told me the itinerary for the weekend; this let me know he follows the motto “work hard, play harder”. I was ready to be his companion and paint the town red with him.

After exchanging emails and texts with me asking him for some additional items, we confirmed the date and he wired a deposit to let me know he was indeed serious. He asked to speak on the phone before the date, so we scheduled some time to chat on the phone. Again, he was respectful and I could get a feel for his personality, as I am sure he could get a feel for mine.

He told me when dinner plans were and that he wanted to grab a drink beforehand, so we worked out the details on when exactly I would arrive. He told me he would wire me the remaining balance the day of, and he kept his word. That also made me feel good that he was confident in sending me my full fee (before meeting me), because he also did his research and found me to be trustworthy.

I made sure to keep a line of communication open every step of the way until I arrived at his hotel, where he was eagerly waiting for me.

We went upstairs to his suite, I dropped off my overnight bag, and we headed to the hotel bar downstairs to have a drink before heading to dinner. I could tell he was a little nervous, which is to be expected but that went away very quickly once he started absorbing my bubbly yet laid back personality. I will let you in on a little secret, I too get butterflies every time I am meeting someone new, it’s just a normal human feeling.

It honestly felt like a great first date and I loved the fact that he was open in general, to having a great time. Sometimes people build such a huge wall up, that it becomes extremely difficult for them to let go (even temporarily), and just enjoy the moment. I was relieved that he wasn’t guarded. This man was right up my alley…let the fun times begin!

We went to dinner at a well known, upscale dinner club in Miami Beach. We ate, we drank champagne, we danced, and everyone wanted to party with us lol. After dinner, we went to a nightclub where one of his acquaintances had a table. We didn’t stay for very long because it was neither his nor my scene (the crowd wasn’t great). We opted to go back to the hotel room and order champagne and have our own party. I will let you use your imagination on how the rest of the night went. Just know that we slept like babies after it all!

The next day, he was up before me but I didn’t even notice because he certainly was very quiet when he got out of bed. We did sleep in late, considering that we had a long night, but we ‘cuddled’ in bed for a little bit, talked, and then got showered and went downstairs for lunch at the hotel beach bar. 

One thing I love about South Beach is that there is always an upbeat vibe everywhere you go, especially in the hotels. The bar we had lunch and drinks at, had a DJ spinning some chill house music and we were just vibing, eating, and drinking. We were there for hours and it didn’t feel like it at all. Everything was effortless. 

I like to curate a familiar feeling, where you feel like we are old friends but passionate lovers. There was definitely a lot of flirting, which I thoroughly enjoyed! I feel like it is a lost art form, so I make it a point to flirt as much as possible. Once again, we attracted some people that wanted to chat with us, buy us drinks, and invite us to events, which is not at all unusual for me so it was all in good fun.

We then headed back upstairs to get cleaned up and get ready for dinner (we might have been a little tipsy lol). Dinner was at another great upscale dinner venue with great vibes. We had a lovely time and then headed back to the hotel to ‘cuddle’. After an amazing shower, we went to sleep.

I woke up the next morning to him cuddling me, which was sweet and much welcomed. We ‘rolled around‘, talked some and then got showered and headed downstairs for breakfast. We then walked on the beach boardwalk to burn all the calories we consumed. We walked for almost 2 hours! We were just talking and getting to know each other, and it didn’t even feel that long…it just felt like two friends catching up.

After our long walk, we got cleaned up, changed, and went down to the hotel pool bar to watch the super bowl (I don’t know anything about football by the way lol), I was mainly looking forward to the half-time performance. I lost a $5 bet on the game to him, but we mostly ate, drank champagne, and had some laughs, with some people chatting us up as usual. After the game was over, it was time for me to leave. I packed up my things and he walked me downstairs, thanked me for an amazing weekend, and kissed me goodnight. I thanked him for a lovely time and headed home.

I woke up the next day to a text from him saying that he extended his trip and wanted me to spend one final night with him. I was flattered; this was confirmation that I gave him the experience that he wanted. The best review is a repeat client.

I met him that evening for dinner and even wore a specific outfit that I discovered that he likes and he was smiling all night about it. We had drinks first at an upscale bar in South Beach. Dinner was at another upscale restaurant on the beach. Everything was fantastic as usual, we talked, ate, drank champagne, and soaked in each other’s company.

After dinner, we went back to the hotel and we ‘cuddled’ before bed. The next morning, we had a final ‘cuddle’ and talked. Then we got showered, dressed, and went for some breakfast. He even let me steal his hoodie and baseball cap lol. 

After breakfast, we went for a short stroll before I rode with him to the airport (at his request). We hugged and kissed each other goodbye, just like two lovers parting ways. 

I have a good feeling I will see him again.

This entire rendezvous is the epitome of The Girlfriend Experience. It is reserved only for the man that loves to enjoy life and celebrate all of his hard work with the woman of his dreams.

When you are ready to have this experience with me, send me a note.

Until next time…

xoxo💋

Vivian