So you have finally booked and confirmed your appointment with the Miami escort of your desire and today is the day you finally meet her. Your nerves are going crazy, you have butterflies, and you’re excited and maybe a little terrified at the same time. This is all very normal. Trust me, the lady is also going through the same thing. I know I’m always a bit nervous when meeting a guy for the first time. Why you ask? There are many reasons…I have a few things going through my mind: “I hope he’s a nice guy”, “I hope we have great chemistry”, “I hope he’s not crazy”, ‘I hope he’s not law enforcement”, even though I’m not doing anything illegal, etc.
You too are equally nervous and have a million things going through your mind so here are some tips to help you get through your first session with an escort with ease, and hopefully a wonderful experience.
Now things will obviously be a bit different depending on if she’s coming to you (outcall) or if you’re going to visit her (incall). I will address both.
INCALL – You visit her
- Make sure you get the correct address information and be on time. Remember that she might have another client after you, so be respectful of that and show up on time. If you’re running late, make sure you let her know as soon as possible. Keep in mind that most ladies will not give you their room or apartment number until you’re actually at their hotel/residence. This is for their safety and perfectly normal so don’t sweat it. Follow her instructions on how she would like you to enter her space. This goes without saying.
- You knock on the door and she opens it and lets you into her chambers. You are smitten by her beauty and can’t wait to experience her charms in every way possible. Pump the brakes! This is your first meeting with her so don’t act overly excited and start jumping her bones! The first thing you should be doing is presenting her your ID. Most escorts check this the first time you’re meeting them; this is perfectly normal. The second thing you should do is handle the “envelope”; Follow her instructions on how she would like to receive this tribute. Last but not the least, follow her lead and enjoy yourself. Remember she’s probably just as nervous as you so try your best to make her as comfortable as possible because she is probably trying to do the same for you. She might ask you to take a shower and/or brush your teeth; do not protest. There’s nothing wrong with being extra clean even if you feel like you are well prepared for the session. Just be agreeable and let the chemistry flow.
- What if you knock on the door and the lady is not at all what you expected? i.e she doesn’t look like her pictures or she’s not pleasant. If you had done your research as I have stated in previous blogs, this should not be an issue. However, things do happen. Sometimes there just isn’t chemistry or perhaps you dropped the ball and didn’t research the lady thoroughly because you were too horny to care. No worries, you will just have to chuck it up as a learning lesson. I do not suggest that you leave and not pay her because you reserved her time and not a service. Try not to be a jerk about it; pay her and chat with her. You might be surprised that you can actually create chemistry by actually showing interest in a person. If it is just so bad that you cannot stay, PAY HER, and be honest with her that she’s not what you thought she would be, and then leave politely. If she’s actually someone misrepresenting herself, this will send her the message that if she doesn’t shape up, she won’t last long in the business, let alone, make any money.
The only time I would recommend getting the hell out of there (without paying), is if she is intending to cause you harm, which shouldn’t be the case if you did your research.
OUTCALL – She visits you
- Make sure you give her the exact address and room/apartment number in advance. You don’t have to give her the apartment/room number the day before but she MUST have that information before she departs on her journey to come visit you. She certainly MUST have the address as soon as possible so that she can better plan her route to show up to you on time.
- She knocks on the door and your open it to the beauty you’ve been anticipating for so long. You’re excited and eager to get to know her better. Pump the brakes! Remember that she is probably even more nervous than you because she’s in your territory and not hers. Your only job from the minute she walks in the door is to put her at ease. The first thing you should be doing is showing her your ID. The second thing you should do is handle the “envelope” in the order she requested. Lastly, offer her the ladies room and some refreshment (water, soft drink, etc). Open the drink in front of her; remember that women still have to worry about being drugged so transparency is key here. Don’t be offended if she turns down your offer for a drink; she probably feels like she has to get to know you first and build some trust before she accepts any drinks from you. Again, follow her lead and enjoy yourself.
- What if she’s not at all what you expected? Since this is your territory, you can PAY HER and send her on her way. Do try to be nice about it, but NEVER send her away without paying her. She traveled to see you, so you should be a gentleman and compensate her for her time. Besides, you wouldn’t be in this pickle if you did your research on her as I have stressed numerous times.
I hope this helps guide you on your journey to ecstasy with your chosen companion. I will be sure to discuss this even further on my podcast. xoxo
